I turned 61 this year, though it's actually been a few years that I've gotten to the point where I can have peace about the things I don't love and don't really care to learn more about. For example, a while back I came to a point in my career where I was able to say to myself, I get why Thomas Aquinas is important, but I'm giving myself permission not to be an expert on Aquinas.
Maybe it's about coming to a point in one's career when you don't have to prove yourself any more. Maybe it's coming to a point in life when you don't feel the need to impress anyone any more. But I realized this morning while doing some reading that there are at least three things that it seems like intellectuals like me should be into, but I am just not into them at all - and I give myself permission not to be into them. So here is today's list of 3 things that some might feel a professor like me should be into, but I'm just not - in no particular order:
1. Philosophy
2. Poetry
3. The Ballet
I don't care what anyone says, you cannot tell a story with dance alone, and in my younger days I tried to like the ballet, but I discovered what most people with common sense already knew - if you don't know the story ahead of time, you will not get it from the dancing.
Anyway - what's your list? What are the things you have felt (or others have implied) you ought to be into, but you're just not? Maybe if you think through it, you won't have to wait as long as I did to give yourself permission not to waste your time with expectations that don't fit your personality, and you can streamline your life and spend your time on the things that will bear fruit in your life.
Dear friends - Please take 10 minutes to watch this personal update from me:
I'm back, up and running, and ready to go - I should have a new JOURNEY episode within the next week or so - and because you are my loyal peeps, here is an exclusive, just-for-you, behind the scenes SNEAK PEEK into my new office:
I mentioned in The Journey that I wrote a song based on Isaiah 2, which is one of my favorite OT passages:
In days to come, the mountain of the Lord’s house
shall be established as the highest mountain, and raised above the hills.
All nations shall stream toward it. Many peoples shall come and say:
“Come, let us go up to the Lord’s mountain, to the house of the God of Jacob, That he may instruct us in his ways, and we may walk in his paths.” For from Zion shall go forth instruction, and the word of the Lord from Jerusalem.
He shall judge between the nations, and set terms for many peoples.
They shall beat their swords into plowshares, and their spears into pruning hooks; One nation shall not raise the sword against another, nor shall they train for war again. House of Jacob, come, let us walk in the light of the Lord!
I hope you like the song!
The problem with us men is that often we don't have the wisdom to be a father until we're a grandfather.
This may sounds like some ironic statement that makes you nod your head in agreement but shrug your shoulders in resignation, thinking, well there's nothing we can do about that. But the practical application of that is that it demonstrates how important it is for kids to grow up around their grandparents. But as in our culture the family becomes ever more fractured and spread out, that is harder and harder to do.
Lately I've been thinking that part of the problem is the whole concept of college. It used to be that everyone thought a person had to go to college to make a good living. Not only is that not the case (truck drivers make more money than I do) but now college has gone from useless to actually ruining our kids. But when I went to college, what you were supposed to do is figure out what career you wanted (as if anyone knows that at age 18) and then go away to the college ...
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The Sword and the Clover - just let me know by email.
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JIm
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