As I was praying this morning, I was thinking about my new grandson, and praying for him, of course, but I was thinking just how small and fragile he is. If you're like me, just holding a newborn is an experience - like, before I take him I want to cover the floor in rubber, cover the rubber with pillows, and cover the pillows with marshmallows, just in case - you know what I mean.
So that got me thinking - in the incarnation, when the Word became flesh, and divinity took on humanity - I guess we (or maybe just I) sometimes forget how utterly helpless and fragile a newborn is. So God didn't just accept the pain and suffering and death that Jesus experienced as an adult, he also was willing to take on that absolute vulnerability which we all experienced but don't remember. As adults, some of us experience more vulnerability and helplessness than others, but to whatever extent we experience that, the Divine Word took it to the max by being willing to come into the world as a newborn. The incarnation is not only a self-limitation (Phil 2), but also a willingness to accept that absolute vulnerability. And with that, comes the total willingness to be completely dependent on (in Jesus' case) Mary and Joseph.
I think we can all do better in letting go of having to control everything and allowing ourselves to be more dependent (more trusting) on God for our lives and our futures.
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I mentioned in The Journey that I wrote a song based on Isaiah 2, which is one of my favorite OT passages:
In days to come, the mountain of the Lord’s house
shall be established as the highest mountain, and raised above the hills.
All nations shall stream toward it. Many peoples shall come and say:
“Come, let us go up to the Lord’s mountain, to the house of the God of Jacob, That he may instruct us in his ways, and we may walk in his paths.” For from Zion shall go forth instruction, and the word of the Lord from Jerusalem.
He shall judge between the nations, and set terms for many peoples.
They shall beat their swords into plowshares, and their spears into pruning hooks; One nation shall not raise the sword against another, nor shall they train for war again. House of Jacob, come, let us walk in the light of the Lord!
I hope you like the song!
The problem with us men is that often we don't have the wisdom to be a father until we're a grandfather.
This may sounds like some ironic statement that makes you nod your head in agreement but shrug your shoulders in resignation, thinking, well there's nothing we can do about that. But the practical application of that is that it demonstrates how important it is for kids to grow up around their grandparents. But as in our culture the family becomes ever more fractured and spread out, that is harder and harder to do.
Lately I've been thinking that part of the problem is the whole concept of college. It used to be that everyone thought a person had to go to college to make a good living. Not only is that not the case (truck drivers make more money than I do) but now college has gone from useless to actually ruining our kids. But when I went to college, what you were supposed to do is figure out what career you wanted (as if anyone knows that at age 18) and then go away to the college ...
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